The service and funeral for Marie was yesterday.  It was probably one of the few I have been to where the release appeared easier.  There weren't many tears because I think everyone knew that Marie was not suffering anymore and that gave a lot of them relief.

Her family is taking it very well.  I think the time they had to prepare helped a little.  But we all know the hardest part will be when everyone is gone.  The sympathy cards stop coming, people head back to their homes and then it's just you.  I know most of the family will be there for John and the kids and check in on them as much as they can.  

Aside from Grandparents, my extended family doesn't socialize a lot outside of major events; funerals, weddings, graduations.  I hope things change though as all of the "kids" get a little older.  I want everyone to understand that it's important to cultivate your relationships with your friends and family.  It's ok to be there for each other, even if there is no immediate need.  Because really in the end, what's all that's left?  It's the effect that we have on one an other that makes all the difference in the end.

Current Mood:  Tranquil